There is no person in this world that is in a happy healthy loving relationship that needs stimulation on a routine bases from another person if they are in a happy healthy loving relationship. If you find you seek from another that you are not getting from your partner or you see they need it from you or another.... you better reevaluate your relationship with them and your partner. Don't get me wrong we all have "friends" that we enjoy doing things with or talking with. One should check themselves if it goes beyond that.
Clue: if you find you need to talk to somebody a lot more then your partner....you might want to ask yourself why.
Clue: if you find that somebody needs to talk to you a lot and they are in a relationship .... you might want to ask yourself why.
Now don't get me wrong. If there are cercomstances then don't be concerned, helping with their problem...setting up a party say or they are having hard time with something. But if something doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
Trust me alot of times you are not aware of it because it seems innocent.
In my opinion... no person in a healthy loving relationship needs craves attention from others constantly unless they are NOT getting something from there partner. Think about it for a moment. And the light bulb will come on. RED FLAG.
How do we determine?
Ask yourself how much time do I spend talking to them. What is the conversation about, And if I was in there shoes....what would be my reaction if I found my partner or my friends partner, needed to talk or do things all the time with somebody else. And if im in a relationship am I hiding it? If they are in a relationship are they hiding it? If you answer yes.... hummmmm.
Now there are exceptions to the rules. And one has to evaluate the situation. This is Just food for thought.
NO PERSON in a happy loving relationship needs outside stimulation from another individual on a routine bases if they are TRULY in a happy loving relationship. I don't care what they tell you or you tell them.
Yes...im sure people will argue the point well I love talking to my friends and like to go out and do things with them on a ”ROUTINE” bases and not have my partner ALWAYS with. I never said ALWAYS.... but if you....ALWAYS seek elsewhere.... you might want to reevaluate your relationship. Like I said in my opinion.
