You may not be her first, her last, or her only.
She loved before she may love again.
But if she loves you now, what else matters?
She's not perfect, you aren't either,
and the two of you may never be perfect together
but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice,
and admit to being human and making mistakes,
hold onto her and give her the most you can.
She may not be thinking about you
every second of the day, but she will give you a part of
her that she knows you can break her heart.
So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze
and don't expect more than she can give.
Smile when she maked you happy,
let her know when she makes you mad,
and miss her when she's not there.
-Bob Marley
Very well put by Bob Marley.
It’s funny how people try to change the person they are with. Guys, girls didn’t you fall in love with the person that you are with? What happen? Yes people do fall out of love all the time. Was it one of those relationships you went into to change them into something that you want? Is that why you were or are in love with this person? Or were they not telling the truth being “true to themselves.” Or for that matter you were not being “true to yourself”? Love can make us blind.
A very good friend of mine told me once... "Nobody is perfect, we all have faults. It’s if you can live with those faults is when you move forward with that relationship." Ok it might not be an exact quote. I’ve said similar things to friends of mine myself also. For those that did find the one they love and have found that those faults they did find out is what makes the person they love who they are the just read on for possibly helping somebody you know.
Here it is in a nut shell.......
Why, do people stay in a relationship they hate, or claim to hate? Why do people talk shit about the one they are with? Sometimes take abuse, verbal, and physical, but still stay with that person. Is it because if you love them enough you will be able to fix them or change them into something that you really want? Or is it they don’t think they can do any better. TRUTH…. You can’t change somebody to fit you; you have to find somebody that fits you. I keep hearing the perfect "man" or "woman". Truth there isn’t any. But there is a perfect person for you. If you have found that person hold on tight and tell them you love them every day. For those that are still searching don’t look too hard. I have found the harder you look the harder it is to find. I for one have not given up but I’ve stopped trying so hard. If I find a great woman then it will because it was meant to be. Ya ya.. All you out there will laugh and say well you will be alone for a long time if you don’t look. Truth.... I don’t believe that. Don’t need a woman in my life just to have a woman. I need a woman to walk with me and enjoy the things I do. And walk the path to new adventures. The right woman for me will be the perfect woman for me. Were or who she is well only time will tell.
Once again to all you out there look for what you want and need in your life. Never give up on love but know that you can’t find a person and change them into something that you could love. Not every relationship is perfect but remember that they don’t have to be. They have to be things you can live with. If not don’t try to change them cause it will not work. Good Luck, never give up but don’t try so hard. Go out date find out what they have to offer. Look for flags. But for God's sake don't spend all your time trying to find faults with the person. Go out and enjoy yourself. IF it was meant to be it will be. If you go in expecting a relationship to fail, it will!! If you go in expecting to see red flags you will see them everywhere. Don’t put your heart all out there until you’re sure they are the one. Until then just enjoy the company. Some more good advice, if you’re not sure on somebody then date them until you’re sure. Just protect the heart. Never go all in until you are willing to take that chance that it could possibly hurt.
Everybody wants somebody in their life. But to have somebody just so you are not alone. Not a good Idea, because then it will never work. I hope everybody finds that “TRUE” love that they are looking for.
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